The Surviving Space Self-Assessment

They said they needed space. But the real reason isn't what you think.

It's not love lost, it's skills missing. Find yours in under 10 minutes.

You’ve probably been told to “just give them space” or “wait it out.” That advice keeps you stuck. This quiz shows you what’s really happening underneath the silence.

Most people discover they’ve been trying the wrong fixes all along.

This isn’t a personality quiz. It’s a free research-based self-assessment built from over a decade of working with couples in crisis.

In less than 10 minutes, you’ll get a clear snapshot of your relational skill set and a roadmap for where to begin.

Which conflict patterns are secretly pushing your partner away.
The 5 key areas of relational health, and where you’re strong (or struggling).
Your personalized score + what it means for surviving separation.
The next steps to stop spiraling and start resetting.

How the Surviving Space Self-Assessment Works

Here’s what you’ll uncover when you take the quiz:

Pinpoint the cracks: See which skills are fueling disconnection.
Spot your blind spots: Find the habits keeping you stuck in panic or shutdown.
Map your next step: Know exactly where to start to calm yourself and rebuild connection.

This isn’t about labeling you “good” or “bad” at relationships. It’s about shining a light on skills most of us were never taught, so you can stop spiraling, and start moving forward.